Get Confidence when you need to
Everything in this world changes and our ability to get confidence changes depending on the experience we have. Confidence is a state and just as the weather it now and then serves us and at times annoys us. Sometimes slowly over time and sometime faster than we wish it, but when we are aware about that we can use it to our advantage. Because we want it all the time but do we actually need all of it consistently? In fact it might just be enough to have an extra boost during high demand challenges and since we know that it can change really fast we now know that with the best knowledge and the proper tools we can change it in our own favor, whenever we need to.
As a matter of fact to much confidence all the time is seen as arrogant by others and nobody wants to be seen as arrogant. And if you stop searching for confidence all the time it will release a lot of pressure if you know you just have to boost it at certain times. That will give you more confidence then actually looking for it whatever you which will confuse you more than support you goals.
Live in the moment instead of analyzing things or states you don’t have. Like that you will avoid many worries and create less fear and stress within your life. Last but not least you’re attitude to always be professional in whatever you do. Don’t rank tasks differently if you must do them you need to do them as professional as you possibly can. That is also to live in the moment and the more commitment you add to the task the more confidence will you have at that very moment
This might sound too easy but it isn’t. We all get caught up in the rat race and attempting to fix everything in once which is impossible. And then we focus on everything we don’t do which’s a killer for confidence.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that you can take all your valuable time to every task, there you must rank what kind of task that will get more time than another. But again if you have to do it, do it with joy and as professional you can in the time frame you got and you will get confidence in that task right there in the specific moment.



